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Comment on Tips to Tell if He is Really Into Being With You-Part 2 by Tips to Tell if He is Really Into Being With You Part 4: It's the Little Things | thoughtsondating.com

Sun, 06 Mar 2011 04:42:15 +0000

[...] then went into other subjects and almost forgot to finish what I had started. That said, this is a series of tips on how to tell if the man you are with really wants to be with you, or if he is just there for [...]

Comment on Why Dating Older Men is More Beneficial Than You Think by Pastor Vance Williamson

Pastor Vance Williamson — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 07:58:41 +0000

As a 51 year old Pastor with a younger wife, she couldn’t agree more. (LOL) You do make some true observations and provide great content. Some of the younger women sick of the games and posturing of younger men should listen to your advise.
Thanks again.

Pastor Vance

Comment on What?!?! You Gave Me What Virus? How to Stay Safe Online by Harriet Bond

Harriet Bond — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 12:46:31 +0000

There are so many scams going on at any one time, and investing in a good anti-virus programme might not be how you would like to spend your money, but it is SO worth it!

Comment on Women & The Married Man Syndrome: Why it Happens & What it Means by Ken

Ken — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 17:00:29 +0000

Everyone is responsible for their own actions, whether they be male or female or anything inbetween. A woman who goes into a relationship with a married man with her eyes open, ie., she is aware of the marriage from the beginning, has herself to blame. The man can and should take responsibility for his actions, but not for her actions. It takes two to tango. Some women feel they have the upper hand in these kinds of relationships because they feel they can always threaten to expose the relationship to the wife if the husband doesn’t leave her, that is why such women are sometimes known as home-wreckers. If a woman has gone through this type of relationship once and she decides she’d like to seek out a similar relationship then she is doing it for the thrill of it, not because she is a helpless victim a chemically dependent on the rush of seeing married men. Give me a break!

Comment on Is there a Mr. Right? And Why Haven’t You Found Him Yet? by Christine

Christine — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 03:15:13 +0000

such an inspiring advice..You know what, Im 20 years old and somehow Im really looking forward to have my first ever relationship..meanng I’m a member of NBSB.(No Boyfriend Since Birth)..:) And Im looking forward to meet my Almost Mr. Right..

Comment on 4 Ways to Get Women to Talk to You On Online Dating Sites by Harriet Bond

Harriet Bond — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 11:28:31 +0000

Yes I would agree with all of these tips and probably add another very important one: as a woman who is on internet dating, for various reasons, I resent men who start making over-familiar comments almost straight away. Just because I am on a dating site, some men seem to assume this means I am so desperate for male attention that I’ll put up with creepiness!! For me, over-familiarity is extremely off-putting and is one sure thing to put me off replying at all. Of course, not all women would be put off by this, it will differ from person to person.

Comment on Top 3 Ways To Turn an Online Chat into a Long Term Love by Harriet Bond

Harriet Bond — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 11:30:59 +0000

I think you are right about having to search for matches online and be proactive, but as I say in my own blog ‘The Joys and Perils of Internet Dating: Episode 7′ at http://www.harrietbond.com, it’s all so unromantic. Like searching through books on Amazon. You might get a description and a picture but you don’t really know what it’s like till it arrives through your door. I suppose the answer is to not rely solely on the internet for chances to meet someone, and have faith that romance can occur anywhere and at any time.Here’s hoping!

Comment on Tips to Tell if He is Really Into Being With You Part 4: It’s the Little Things by Amy

Amy — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 05:51:12 +0000

I’m usually suspect of a guy who’s trying to be too romantic.

Comment on Top 3 Lies American Women Tell Their Men by RelationshipDJ

RelationshipDJ — Wed, 24 Nov 2010 03:05:57 +0000

That’s a very interesting articles, but how can someone know for sure that the other person is doing or not doing? with my girlfriend, I hate to admit but I only go by what she tells me. If she lies about something she’s only lying to herself. The same thing goes for men. I am not sure that there’s equality. We may be able to do the same thing but never the same way does that mean equality.. not too sure.

Great article.

Comment on Online Dating is Social Networking: Just with a Different Goal in Mind by ValidDate

ValidDate — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 21:30:49 +0000

IMHO, online dating sites service the needs of many people with no time and limited options for meeting others – especially those of us who are a little older in years and not into ‘night clubs’ or sitting in bars.

With that said, a common issue with dating sites is the fact you often find that the date (in person) does not match their ‘tuned’ dating site profile and you find you’ve waisted an evening, some money and worst still, emotional effort.

Another issue – for those of us who’re not so good at face-to-face dating is finding out “what went wrong?”.

After a few online dates with no second dates, many people become confused and start to over-think their dates.

Comment on About TOD and It’s Author by David

David — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 22:34:49 +0000

My thoughts about free dating sites. I think the best paid online dating site is mate1 and the best free dating service is YouDate.net. They both feature live video chat with voice and is easy to find a date.

Comment on Women & The Married Man Syndrome: Why it Happens & What it Means by Gina Sabo

Gina Sabo — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 17:59:22 +0000

These individuals are desperate and had to be abused by other men. If you are a great spouse and mother-why would you betray a “sister” ? If you take out the wife’s trash, do her grocery shopping, make dinner,clean and wash clothes-oh and we can’t forget working outside the home and balancing ALL of the finances, she might drive her husband to you and wait on him-to drive his selfish A– home to go to work tomorrow–hahaha-IRRESPONIBLE_IMMATURE_SELFISH CREATURES-they need to live in their own colony-oh, that’s right, they can’t stand low lifes-look in the mirror,sweety!!!

Comment on Two Mythbusters and Some Tips on Dating Younger Women by blaine

blaine — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 02:17:49 +0000

why do men have to fend off these ugly allegations of being perverts or wanna-be pedophiles in our culture? A fat white womyn in her 50s can chase after teenage boys, and she’s praised as a cougar; men in their 50s who date women in their 20s or 30s, however, are perceived as perverts and weirdos and it is often grossly unjust. Truth be told, a lot of bitter divorcees are simply angry that men their age are tired of dealing with them and with their malevolent antics; these women may be able to put on an act at a bar when they’re trying to pick up some inexperienced youngster, but they eventually revert back to what they are. Guys, never let society tell you that you are weird or predatory because you ask out a younger woman: she may say yes; she may say no – but let her make that decision and not your own fears or insecurities or society’s endless bleatings about “dirty old men.” all that garbage is coming from the feminazis who hate the fact that older men can find happiness while they, the bitter banshees, cannot.

Comment on Things to Never Tell Your Girlfriend by Datematchmade

Datematchmade — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 20:20:41 +0000

Thanks for sharing this information, this article has extremely good points. I think if you are honest with your girlfriend the relationship will be strong, after all relationships should be based on trust and mutual respect this is how you create a bond for one another. Looking forward in reading more of your posts thanks again.

Comment on Are You a Professional Dater? Do You Know Someone Who Is? by Aplus

Aplus — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 09:49:22 +0000

Well, i am more of a casual dater, will seriously have to start changing my ways.

Comment on Things to Never Tell Your Girlfriend by Aplus

Aplus — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 08:57:19 +0000

I beleive in honesty again, I would rather want to know the truth and not have to wonder about things.

Comment on Tips to Tell if He is Really Into Being With You Part 4: It’s the Little Things by Tips to Tell if He is Really Into Being With You Part 4: It’s the Little Things | Dating Tips, Guide and Advice

Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:06:13 +0000

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Comment on How to Keep the Magic Alive in a Relationship by Poyaks

Poyaks — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 07:26:17 +0000

These tips are nice. They are effective, but I still think the best way to keep the fire burning in a relationship is to “do new things”. Things that you have never done before, try new things, go to new places. That should do the trick. =)

Comment on 3 Tips For Increasing Online Dating Profile Views by Kelley Faircloth

Kelley Faircloth — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 05:52:57 +0000

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Comment on Are You a Professional Dater? Do You Know Someone Who Is? by Always Single in Dallas

Always Single in Dallas — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 21:29:48 +0000

I have a friend James who loves to date online. He doesn’t openly admit it though because of the bad aura around it, but he says it’s a great way to filter out what he does and doesn’t want. Eventually though for one reason or another it doesn’t work out but for the other guys I know who don’t online date, I think he’s on par as the norm.

I wouldn’t qualify him as addicted though but he does go out on a lot of date, but its just increases his chances of meeting someone he likes. He does fine at the bars meeting people so its not like he has social anxieties or anything. And he’s a gentleman at all times. He just likes to online date and I don’t see an issue with it. But the group of us would be considered as professional daters, and I am getting kind of tired of it now that I am 34