Sometimes a Test is All it Is
I am probably going to get killed for writing this. This are some very powerful words I’ve got here. This is a seven part series on the most unknown secrets of women. And they are not just any secrets, either. They are the secrets about women that most of us women don’t want any man to ever know about.
So why am I posting them? Because I am loyal to my readers as my readers are loyal to me. It’s that simple. Respect for the people I say. And I wouldn’t have it any other way. So read on, follow the advice given here and go on to a successful life in dating. That is of course until you find the right one…
The Secret of Some Relationships
The fact of the matter is, at some point in your dating life, you have been tested, and if you are dating someone right now, you are probably being tested as I write! We women have our ways of getting to know someone, and we also have the right to pick and choose who we want to date, just as men do and if we feel a test is needed, then we will go ahead and test you. The problem is, many times a man will fail this test because he has no idea he is being tested in the first place. And that is the whole point. If a man knows he is being tested, then he will pass with flying colors and us women will never really know the true you in certain situations. And that is a problem.
But Why Test a Man Like This? Why Not Just Ask Questions?
You see, the reason why we test men is so we can see how a man will act, or react, in a certain situation. For example, we want to know how emotionally stable you are. We also want to know how intelligent a man is. Then, of course, there is that bit of drama in our lives that we just can’t get enough of as women… Oh, yeah lets not forget that we women pretty much like making life hell-just to see your reaction to it. If you will put up with us or not. And the number one reason we women, as a species test the men of the world? Because we can!
So, um.. that’s it, right? End of story, so now we can move on, right?
Wrong, there is more to it then that. While we women know we have the fundamental right as a species to test the men of the world to see how they will act or react and if they are enough to handle us and all we can put them through, there really is more to it than that.
Here’s the Deal…
If he does as we expect, or want him to do, then they pass. But if, for whatever reason, he messes up and fails the test, most likely you won’t be hearing from us again any time soon. But don’t despair. There are subtle ways to tell if you have been a victim-uh… I mean subject of our little testing games.
But, you see, while most of us women will test the men to see how they react, it is always good to know these things because there are a malicious sort out there who will test in a most barbarous manner. And these are the types of women you need to stay away from, or they might just get you locked up in jail-or worse-in a mental institution because she purposely put you through a whole bunch of bullshit for no reason other than she thought it was funny to watch you reaction or worse-to watch you suffer.
And in my defense as a woman having to deal with these malicious types just as much as you men do, I think this is wrong. Testing a man to drive him crazy was not what these things were meant to do. The tests were supposed to gauge your manliness in certain situations to see if you were good enough to protect us and provide for us-And that’s it! When these tests were first devised by women, it was something we did to see if you were good enough to be with us, not to hurt you in any way.
With that being said, please be aware there are those women out there who will try to use these tests in this malicious way, and here are some ways to spot those malicious women with their malicious tests:
1-The need to make you jealous test. The women who do something like this want nothing but to see you in a jealous rage and suffering. These types of women actually derive pleasure out of watching you squirm in your seats when you see her out with someone else. They like to see you jealous. And they know if they show off or flaunt enough in front of you, you will try to do something about it, if you actually care for her.
This can get you locked up and woman-less because after the fact, if you do actually take action, she will try to pin it on you as being a jerk and not giving her enough space. So, stay away from women who try this, or you might one day have a unwarranted record following you around.
2- The “I Caught You looking at her ass!” test. This particular test is a play on the first one. The women who like to play this game are the ones checking out the other asses in the first place. They are usually so insecure with themselves because they know they do it, so of course you must be doing it too. They are covering their own asses by accusing you and making you crazy in the short term. This type of woman will one day cheat on you, if she hasn’t already; so to avoid any heartache, stay far, far away-for both of your sakes.
3-The I know I just made you hot, but I am gonna have to say “no” anyway” test In this test, the woman will get you really turned on on purpose just to see what you will do. Of course, she is taking a risk by doing so, as there are some men out there who won’t take “no” for an answer (and hopefully you aren’t one of these types) but more likely than not, you are going to respect her and not try to push her into going any further. If you do, you will be labeled as a rapist and your reputation sullied by the most malicious of all women. The ones who scream rape when it really wasn’t. If you ever have the misfortune to come across this type, move as far away from her as you can. Otherwise she will scream rape one day and you might just find yourself behind bars for something you really didn’t do for a very long time. These types of women need help, real professional help and are the types who ruin it for the rest of us. So stay away, lest you are actually looking for trouble…
The Outcome is Always the Same
If you find yourself confronted with any of these types of women, wither one of three things will happen. One-You will go to jail. Two- You will be institutionalized or three- you win by getting far away! The only way to fix any of these situations is to forget the woman trying to play these games with you. Because if you don’t there can be no other outcome and you will be miserable for the rest of your life. I have seen this happen to too many men to not talk about it and warn all of you here.
As a matter of fact, let me tell you a little something about myself-no, about my life. I have a friend who got mixed up in a relationship with this foul, malicious woman. She decided to have a little fun one day, knowing how he felt for her. So she taunted him enough and he wound up killing the guy she paraded around with. I am not saying he is in the right-certainly not! What I am saying is that this could have been prevented if the woman he was with actually gave a crap about someone other than herself. IMHO, women who do things like this do not deserve to have happiness, let alone find a man who will give her everything just to throw it back in his face with one of these tests, just to get a laugh. That is just too much.
So, don’t give up, just know that if you do find you are bring tested, go along with it for awhile, see what it is about. It may be that the woman who is testing you is for real. And if she is, do your best to make her happy because you are one of the lucky ones. Now that you know what to look for in a test about to go wrong, you will be able to keep your cool when you need it most, and maybe land yourself a terrific woman in the end.