Or is the Blindfold is Too Tight that You Can’t Tell?

Blinded By New Love
This post is about trusting someone in a relationship. How do you now when it is safe to trust your partner? Especially if the relationship is, for the most part, new? There are so many different aspects to the trust issue, so I will do a few posts on the subject. This first one concerns new trust, how to earn it, how to know when it is safe to give, etc.
This is essentially part one. The other two or three posts will follow immediately this week. Please take heed and enjoy this post. Just remember, I have been here, there and everywhere, so I understand how you feel. Believe me, if my experiences, good or bad, can help even one person, then my life was worth something…
~JC
It’s a New But Very Real Relationship
Now that the two of you have been dating for a while, it is time to start building the trust between you. Believe it or not, you have been doing just that since you talked the very first time online. Some element of trust must have been present to make the decision to meet the first time, right? If even the littlest bit of trust was not there in the relationship, you never would have gone on the first date, never have kissed the first time and you would not be where you are now wondering about it now. So, that said, how do you keep it up? Let’s take a look at trusting for the first time in a relationship and how to tell if your mate is worthy of your trust in the first place.
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